Hard to believe that I'm finally at the stage of life where I realise and understand fully how it feels when friendships drift to the point of no return. The point where you tried hard to keep it alive, but things just wouldn't work out, because the difference in perspective has never been so great.
You start to feel as if friends has become strangers, and the happy days are far gone. I was feeling miserable over this for a while. But as those happy memories fade gradually, it's probably time to move on. Sharon used to tell me that man's greatest fear is loneliness. If I could ever overcome that, I'll find happiness.
I'm facing up to reality that I'll have to drop some friends at some point, and pick up new ones as I go. I think I found someone whom I can finally connect with tonight =)
I really really can't wait to be back, to catch up with people who still care.
Thursday, August 7
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hey babe... it goes 2-way.. when we feel like we wanna "drop" some friends, some other friends may be thinking of "dropping" us.
rather than thinking about it in these terms, just contact those you can click with more. your friends will ultimately be those who bother at some point, to contact you! =)
It's not that I really enjoy dropping friends.. but I just feel like as everyone goes through different sets of life experiences, they change... and I dont feel like I know them anymore.
that's true. they may also feel like they no longer know you babe...
everyone change at some point in their lives. priorities change.. they are changed by their environment.. but i guessed if they're your friends, and they have something in them that made them your friends in the first place, then if u dig deeper, im sure u can still find that familiarity which endeared both parties once. =)
hey woman! i thought i was the cynical one! dont be so down!! you're going on a holiday to koreeea!!!! =) =) =)
You, as a cynic?? Are you kidding me? Haha...
hahah nope. im the biggest cynic around. but that's my own view of things and i dont impose it on anyone. so that i dont influence anyone negatively!! hahaha
but of course the degree of cynicism fluctuates depending on the event. hahaah
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